Wedding, it is one of the most important milestones for two people who are genuinely in love and committed to one another. It is one of the sacred sacraments in the Catholic Church. It is said that two people who undergo this extraordinary moment must promise to love one another for the rest of their lives. As defined by the Merriam-Webster dictionary, it is a ceremony accompanied by festivities. It is an act of joining in close association.
We may have thought of our dream weddings — the colors, flowers, maybe even who you’d want to be wed. Perhaps you have ideas on where to have the ceremony and also the venue for the after-wedding celebration.
But before all these, preparations must be made to create this once in a lifetime event become what you dreamt it to be, here are some reminders on planning for your wedding.
#1 Ask an expert
Wedding organizers are experts in making dream weddings come to life. They will help you prepare from the slightest of details to the big ones. They can give you ideas on designs, programs and even exclusive use wedding venue.
#2 Be specific with what you want
You don’t need to have everything figured out. Some things are just meant to be the way they are. But it is a good thing to keep a list of specific things that you want to have on your wedding.
#3 Be specific with what you don’t want
The same way with laying out what you want for your wedding, you should also keep a list of things you don’t want for your wedding. Specific flowers? Colors? You would want your wedding to be as perfect and how you have dreamt of it.
#4 Consult your partner
This should be a no brainer. An event such as this is a celebration for two, not one. Discuss with your spouse on what they want and what they do not wish to. If two things do not meet initially, compromise.
#5 Ask for help
You don’t need to have everything under your supervision. Planning a wedding is not like eating in a restaurant where you’ll pick what is on their menu. Ask someone you trust to help you with things that you can delegate. BUT don’t forget to double-check on them.
#6 Pray and hope for the best
Once you have finished your planning, don’t forget to pray that everything will be alright and hope that this once in a lifetime event will be a good start for a lifetime of memories.